Everyone is selfish. I never seen anyone who has never been selfish because everyone is protect themselves from deeply being hurt. We all shouldn’t blame the other person from being selfish. There times we all did show a lit bit of love but the other doesn’t know how to appreciate bcze they are dealing their own suffering. If we can’t forgive each, please don’t hurt each other. Try to understand them instead seeking them to understand you. We are all people trying our best to change ourselves. If you blame them, they will blame u back. If you give love, slowly they will learn to love. If you show hate, they will show you hate. This is life.